Top Advice For Your Kid’s First Days Of School

Last Updated on May 17, 2022 by Kimberly Crawford

Whether your child is entering kindergarten or returning to school to begin a new grade, there is a lot to do to be ready for the school year ahead, including checking in on their worries and reservations.

It is natural for youngsters to be worried as summer draws to a close — after all, your child is returning to a regimented group environment after months away from it. Some youngsters will embrace the shift with enthusiasm, while others may require a little more assistance to adjust.

Visiting The Venue Before The First Day Of Lesson

If your child is returning back to face-to-face learning after a period of distant learning, this is tip very crucial. It is an unfamiliar environment and they will be going to education centres that they have not seen in a while.

In addition, many parents and children have not been within the school building since access is restricted, hence, have never seen the physical classroom before. You could still visit the school to inspect the facility and park if your child’s instructors do not offer families to visit in advance.

Reading Relevant Books 

First-day nerves can be relieved and confidence boosted by stories featuring characters your child can identify with, particularly those with characters experiencing kindergarten for the first time in their lives. You will undoubtedly discover a book that permits you to pause and engage with your kid about their feelings or thoughts about the coming academic year.

Talk To Your Child Abour How He/She Feels

Today, social-emotional learning is a hot issue among teachers, and many school systems are incorporating it into their curricula. The manner in which children develop meaningful relationships with oneself and others are commonly referred to as SEL.

This self-awareness approach can start at home, in a familiar space. When talking about the subject of going-back-to-school, you can get a sense of how your kid feels about the his or her classroom, environment, as well as what he wants to get out of learning.

Inquire on what they are excited about and what they want to learn, as well as any reservations they may have. For instance, some youngsters may be concerned about being bullied or not being able to understand and/or catch up with classes.

Helping Your Child To Straighten Out Their School Year 

Students can set plans for the upcoming academic year in the same way that adults do for the new year. A good activity to work on every month, include choosing a focus word with your child that expresses their intention.

For instance, pick a word for every month to help your child reflect their back-to-school experience because children are still acquiring the notion of time. For example, the terms friendship, perseverance, and kindness may be used in September — this is just one example of what you can do with your child each month.

Parents can then use this term to begin discussions about their child’s educational experience and progress at home. This helps parents to have dialogues with their children and learn about their needs and helps parents keep up to date with their child’s activities. 

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Summer Reading Time

Establish a reading nook at home this summer to get into a reading habit for the autumn. When your kid comes home from school, you and your child (or simply your child if they are currently reading autonomously) can have a space to read together or separately.

You should definitely maintain it to be distraction-free, as it will enable your child to better focus on his book rather than what is going on around him.

Ensure that there is a bookshelf or box full of books your youngster may want to read afterwards. If you are unsure of what to include in his reading pack, then texts like poems and graphic novels are vital texts that you can consider for exposing your youngster to new vocabulary and ideas. 

Keep a notepad and a pencil handy so your child can sketch or scribble about their reading if they desire, in addition to having access to a variety of literary possibilities.

Including Notes In Your Kid’s Lunch 

A little personal touch will let your youngster know you are keeping them in your thoughts even if they are not physically around you.

Parents have been known to make fast drawings of their child’s favorite literary characters or to humor them from their favorite hilarious book to show their child that they are thought of by their parents, which always results in a smile.

To help the process from vacation to semester, you might wish to make this a daily habit. It would greatly help with the separation anxiety that children tend to face after returning to school.

Shopping For School 

Designating goods as for starting school, such as a clothing or a bag, can turn the process of getting ready for the school year into a ritual and increase enthusiasm.

You and your child can also choose reading material during this time, and the titles do not have to be related to school. Beginning again and setting your child’s perspective by replenishing their library at the start of each school year might become an annual thing for the both of you. 

Your child could write on the inside page what they are most looking forward to in their new grade. They could include some of their best grade-level memories at the end of the year. They may now look back on a memento of happy moments.


In summary, going back to school does not need to be a scary experience for you and your kid. There are many ways that you can prepare your kid to be ready for school, be it through conversations or even simply having time during their summer break to get them on track with reading and writing, such that it comes to them naturally and more easily when they start school, decreasing their stress and anxieties on whether they are able to cope with the academic load after taking too long a time off.

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What do you say to your child on the first day of school?

“Be kind.”

“Don’t give up.”

“Work hard.”

“Have fun.”

“Make new friends.”

“I’m proud of you.”

What should parents do on the first day of school?

As the new school year begins, parents play an important role in helping their children adjust to a new academic and social environment. Here are some tips for parents on the first day of school:

– Arrive early and use the time to tour the school and find your child’s classroom. This will help reduce anxiety on the first day.

– Get to know the teacher and introduce yourself. This will help establish a good relationship between you and the teacher from the start.

– Talk to your child about their expectations for the new school year. This will help them be more positive and excited about starting school.

– Help your child pack their backpack with all the necessary supplies. This will help them be prepared for the school day.

– Encourage your child to make new friends. This will help them feel more comfortable and confident in their new environment.

By following these tips, parents can help their children have a successful first day of school.